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"Break Up", A Failure to Make Bonding in Human Life

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We learn how to make friends, how to share and how to cope with bullies when we are young. Through this way some bonding namely friendship, relationship, relatives got build up. At some point this bonding becomes the only enemy to us. As a result we become crazy and quit the way and name it smartly " break up ". Let's consider the bonding as a bridge , both partners performing as supports to this bridge. When we begin to construct the foundation of this Bridge we never thought about it's demolition, only because of to prove we are the best supports to hold the bridge.  After competition of that Bridge we used to enjoy the bonding up to a certain time. Whenever we fulfilled our self expectations, that bridge of bonding become meaningless to us. At some point these expectations also meet their limits, which is the beginning of cracking of that bond. After some moments the load to support the bridge, becomes very high for partners. Then we choose the way which pa

Let's take a break!!!

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People do their work because they are responsible to live a meaningful life. Some people just love their activities so much they feel like they are in charge. One of their important goals is the completion of the task within the deadline. It's only for their mental satisfaction. They don't care about the working hours when they get involved with the task. Sometimes they become so aggressive to fulfil the activity they do some minor mistakes continuously. Which does not allow them to achieve the goal. Why do they face that type of situation? Listen to me, it's time to take a break. No, I am not telling to go for a vacation, it's only about a small break like tea or coffee break. Our brain works faster when we are not in a stressful environment. We can complete all the task without any error when our brain works well. When Stress becomes high brain works slowly which allow us to make some mistakes. We can refresh our brain by taking a small break. When we need a b

Vision towards Value of a person !!!

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Value of a person defines how much self-worth acquired by that person. If we measure our self-worth our value can be determined. Values are the core beliefs that shape the way people behave and make decisions. They provide a framework for how members treat one another and how they treat others such as potential members. When we want to check our body weight probably we don’t assume it. With the help of a weight measuring machine, we can get that. In the same way, a tailor use measuring tape to prepare clothes as per standard size. That means to determine any value we use some type of metre to get the ultimate result. When it comes to measuring our self-worth, we use something just unreliable as a random metre. As a human being, people used to determine their value at different moments of their life. When they feel like they are measuring up, some good feelings get generated inside them. Despite the fact that random metre which is unreliable, had so much influence how they

Your Workplace Should be your Research Center

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People work to live meaningfully, to earn a living, support family and value his self-worthiness. We become more excited when we get a new job after several tries. The new job roles align us smoothly for the new life. After some days we feel to be bored due to as usual going on things. In that situation, we cannot move to a different job where every day is very exciting. Because this type of job is not available anywhere in this world. So we need to remove boringness from our workplace. If our workplace becomes our Research Centre we cannot be bored anymore. Research Centre, a place where people new processes and products which may lead to the betterment of society, where people bring about a change in an organization or society to the extent of building the nation. We work everyday in a same place following same way. At your workplace if you discover some different ways to complete the same task it cannot be so boring anymore. If you want you can be able to innovate idea

Life is Meaningful, If you enjoy Struggling

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Struggling is a state where a person strives to achieve or attain something in the face of difficulty or resistance. Life is a struggle because “things are being loved, and people are being used.” It’s unpredictable. Unfortunate circumstances may happen anytime and anywhere. No matter how old or young you may be. If you think you’re wondering alone trying to raise your voice so everybody can hear you roaring, you’re damn wrong. In fact, you are surrounded with people who fight bloody combats in their minds between success and failure. Whoever told you that life and success comes easy is either pleasing you, or talk nonsense. Life is a balance of good and bad times along with picking out the best lessons out of both experiences. However, our main goal is to see ourselves happy being worth in a community. Unconsciously we want to be appreciated for what we do. It’s best to find your talent and spread it with the world. However easy it may sound, the previous sentence determines a

Mind your Language! The reaction of A-E-I-O-U (Vowels)

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“Mind your language…!” Did u hear at least once? Right? I heard it several times. The sentence itself is an insult to someone. This shows “someone is telling you to stop your mouth, because he didn’t expect the words came out from your mouth”. We can express our thoughts & feelings through communication. “Speaking” has important role towards communication. We are so lucky, we can speak to others. Other species are unable to get that facility. In the way of communication, what we talk it matters to others. Before we start talking we always think about that, but in some situation we are unable to follow the process. At the same we may receive or deliver some sentences which does not make sense. We know there are five vowels in English language. Vowels enable us to speak the language easily. These provide sound shape to a word & make it meaningful. In the same way, there are five emotion elements, which can improve our effective communication. Their pretext starts

Clarification reduces Misunderstanding

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Consider yourself exceedingly lucky if you have true friends. They are our confidence. After all, we need to share those fun jiffies with someone, which rather be hidden from our family! They make our lives easier, bearable in times of crises and more enjoyable in times of happiness and joy. Even their hurtful pranks or sweet scolding don’t bother us, since we know that they will never leave our side during adversities and are keepers for life. Some of our most cherished and memorable memories are formed with them, which shape up our lives. However, since no real relationship is complete without conflicts between the two parties, there are times when we indulge in serious fights as well. So, here is the list of some of the common reasons as to why closed persons fight: # Misunderstanding When you care for someone, misunderstandings do happen. It happens between two close people. 90 per cent of all the problems arise due to misunderstandings, and ironically, they can be resolve